CONNECTION is the KEY to Cooperation, Part 2

Last time, we talked about how our kids are more likely to cooperate with our desires if they feel connected to us. In order to specifically and intentionally connect with our kids, I laid out a plan for Quality Time in 4-Steps.

Today, let's focus on connecting with our kids using their primary Love Language.

Identify which 1-2 Love Languages are primary for your child and for yourself as a parent. Sprinkle in all five, but focus energy on the primary ones.

1) Quality Time:

Spend one-on-one time (totally undistracted) doing something your child enjoys. Consider setting a timer and leaving your phone in another room to show you are fully engaged.

2) Words of Affirmation:

Express verbal appreciation for who your unique child is and their strengths and talents. Recognize their growth in an area with a fun certificate. Write great things about them with an acrostic poem of their name.

3) Physical Touch:

Give a high-five, hug, or create a special handshake. Sit close, share a blanket, or give a back rub.

4) Acts of Service

Helping with tasks, making favorite meals, doing things that matter to them.

5) Gifts

Thoughtful surprises, special treats, "love" notes, decorate their bedroom door, give a painted rock or other handmade item

What is your child's primary Love Language? How can you demonstrate your love to them today using it?

Mom or Dad - BE ENCOURAGED! You are doing a great job!